Me

⛧ Im caring, thoughtful, have a big heart and always try to help others as much as I can. The downside of this I've been taken advantage of and been used basically my entire adult life but I have learned from the past, accepted it and have moved on. ⛧

 

⟿ A few facts about me:

☑ I'd rather be alone than have toxic or fake people in my life

☑ I am honest and have nothing to hide. I don't get offended when asked personal questions, I answer honestly - even if that means telling someone to mind their own business 🙂

☑ I know when Im being lied to - even if I don't call someone out on it.

☑ Liars, I have no respect for at all. I dont care what the truth is, I'd rather be told the truth.

☑ Sometimes I'll give people more than one chance to tell me the truth, if they don't THAT'S what pisses me off.

☑ I'm not good at having conversations via text/messaging (Ive recently started just sending voice replies to avoid confusion)

☑ I have a permanent resting bitch face (genetic lol) thus people assume Im a bitch.

☑ Major DIS LIKE is people who assume shit. Maybe ask questions or keep your damn mouth shut!

☑ My personality and sense of humor is awesome. Im very sarcastic and witty, alot of people don't get my sense of humor, but that's great, don't want them around anyway.

☑ I can't be around negative, gossiping, whining, or people who have drama (if you have constant drama, STFU, just because you like drama doesn't mean I do nor will I tolerate it)

☑ Speaking of drama, just because I voice my opinions and refuse to be taken advantage of (which I have been WAY too many times in my life) apparently that means Im dramatic. Umm..no it means IM FUCKIN HONEST haha 

☑ I WILL NOT participate in conversations (debates) about politics, religion, the government or conspiracy theories.

☑ I am 100% a dog lover

☑ I have let go of the past and have forgiven (but not forgotten) and don't hold the past against someone.

Want to be a better human? It's easy:

• Stop lying, tell the truth and yes it may make some people upset but that's for them to work out
• Communicate, nobody can read your mind and the longer you dont say anything the worse YOU'RE making the situation
• Don't PREACH your personal beliefs/opinions, its great to voice your beliefs/opinions but you have no right to try to 'convince' others to change theirs to yours. 
• Be respectful. Always.
• Think before you open your mouth
• Be kind, have patience, you don't know what others are going through or have been through, stop taking your personal shit out on others
• Dont be so serious, you get one life and it's shorter than you realize; today literally could be your last day on this planet. Be present, enjoy time with family & friends.
• STOP looking at your phone all the time when your hanging out with someone or some people. Its rude and makes whoever your with feel like you have more important things to do; and if thats the case either say so and reschedule or just don't bother. (This doesn't mean you cant occasionally check your phone for messages or notifications, I mean dont be a d!ck and continuously text or scroll through social media while with company)
• Treat others how you want to be treated
• Be kind
• Respect others opinions even if you don't agree

•⨳•THOUGHT TO PONDER:•⨳•

Single people approaching their late 30's or are 40 and over and are still in the "hookups" with x amount of people always end up to be the old single creeps. #truth